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Child |
Shifted |
Worsened |
Rigid |
Overconcentrated |
Rigid child |
|
Causes Impels for |
Intellectual relationships |
Desire to take under protection, to patronize |
Subordination to him, obedience to him |
Teasing the person, pestering, boring asking
for |
Competition |
Activities |
Child relationships |
|
Reaction to the situation |
No, absence of his/her |
Passiveness, a must to have, dependence |
Control |
Fault, shame, confinement, the stoppage |
Withdrawal into the position of the
restraining |
Going into details |
Inadequate |
|
Associating through |
Absolutes |
Questions |
Giving orders |
Whimpering irritation, dissatisfaction |
Epithets, Definitions, Dies |
Understanding |
Changing the subject |
|
Language |
Depersonalized |
Not straight, evasive |
Direct manipulation (you must) |
Indirect manipulation (polite expressions) |
Tempting,
flattering |
Pedantic |
Alogical |
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Double knot |
лTo live be to die╗ |
лIf IТll ask for it, it wonТt be love; if I
wonТt ask for it, IТll not get it╗ |
лI must be right always, or IТll die╗ |
лIf IТll get angry, IТll be humiliated; if
I'll not get angry, I'll be humiliated too╗ |
лMy every choice is incorrect╗ |
лIf IТll match up with the demands, they
wonТt notice that; if I wonТt, they wonТt notice that too╗ |
лIf I let my love to flow, IТll be left
alone; if I wonТt, IТll be alone╗ |
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Affirmation-mask |
лIТll reject you before youТll reject me╗ |
лI donТt need you╗ лI wonТt ask for it ╗ |
лIТm right but youТre wrong╗ |
лIТll destroy myself (injure myself) before
youТll do it to me╗ |
лYes, butЕ╗ |
лOne must work hard to live well╗ |
лNobody can apprehend me╗ |
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Affirmation of the lower лself╗ |
лAnd you donТt exist too╗ |
лTake care of me, give me a shelter, provide
everything╗ |
лIТll control you╗ |
лIТll do it to you in the sake of the evil,
and provoke you ╗ |
лI wonТt love you╗ |
лI donТt match it up╗ |
лI donТt have enough attention╗ |
|
Affirmation of the higher лself╗ |
лI do exist╗ |
лIТm satisfied, I have achieved it, IТm
realized╗ |
лI yield╗ |
лIТm free╗ |
лI trust in╗ лI love╗ |
лI match it╗ |
лI have enough attention╗ |