It is also called «overconcentrated» (fig. 9). The
word «phallical» comes from the Greek word «phallus» which means man’s sexual
organ in tensioned state. This type of character is laid down in the same time
as classical rigid, but the main role in its forming plays the father, which
rejects and is remote from the child, doesn’t take him as he is. He is very
exacting to his child, because the child is not good enough for him in any
sphere of life. He is always disappointed in him, and all the time wants
something more from him. To speak about the love to the child, it is
conditional in him, - in other words, he loves him, only when he corresponds to
his demands.
Since from the early childhood the child is
charged much responsibility, he early begins to struggle for the status of the
adolescent and is bred up quickly. From the earliest childhood he is encouraged
to be «little man» or «little lady/woman», before they ripen natural way. In
fact, they are not allowed to be the children. That child grows up in the
atmosphere where he cannot get pleasure from life and feels every time that he
will be betrayed if he will express love openly.
As it comes from the name, a man with phallic
type may be emotionally excited often, and consequently, physically also. This
is why he has heightened sexual activity, but he, as a rule, suffers the
failure in obtaining the satisfaction. He hardly expresses deep and tender
feelings and restrains the emotions. He doesn’t accept the defeat, though he
loves visov* and competition. Stubbornness in the achievement of a goal – is
one more feature which he possesses.
In life he always applies efforts to be
perfect, want to achieve much, in order to be ruptured. As you see, the
stereotype which was laid down in the childhood doesn’t go anywhere. By his
behavior and actions he tries to conqueror the approval and love of the father,
even if he has died long ago.
Heading toward his goal, he is full of solid
determination to carry out what was planned, likes to act, productive and may
be a workaholic. He is very logical, serious, rational, is concerned with small
details and concentrated on the truth. It logically comes from there that he
has problems with relaxation.
His passive behavior he views as vulnerability.
He has a fear to behave himself spontaneously present. And he views life as a
problem which must be compulsory solved.
He forms
his defense systems from the idea that he is prohibited to express tender and
strong feelings. This is why his body is tensioned, in order to keep the
feelings under control.
His body is proportional, united into single
one, short in the backside and looks like it is usually bended slightly. It is
always ready for the movement and possesses cheerfulness and vitality.
Movements are coordinated, energetic, determined, quick.
The tension which is present in him creates an impression that it is tight, as
if forged into the armor or into the hauberk. Much tension is present in the
extensor muscles, because of which they can be inflamed regularly. Movements
are meager, and in difficult or dangerous situations they loose refinement.
Head is held high: he has tension in the
forehead; jaw is stepping forward, powerful – his lovely animal is bulldog;
face is – beautiful. His eyes are bright, and when the problem appears, they
become farsighted. Neck – is rigid, and by impression created, it is ossified.
His shoulders may be broad and look reliable,
responsible and solid. They are straightened backwards and upwards. Chest is
also well formed, but it is squeezed. Abdomen is usually flat and well, to say
so, tuned. Basin is slim and tensioned, may be pulled backwards and upwards;
buttocks are well formed. Legs are strong, have good proportions, but are
curved – seldom. Back sides of the legs are squeezed.
In the backbone of the man with phallical
character structure in the lumbar region there is a large sagging. Blades are
squeezed, they are compressed. The back’s straightening muscles are also
compressed.
In relationships, as it was already noted, when
we talked about rigid character, he fills people close to him with energy. In
order to conqueror the nearness of other people, he maneuvers. However, despite
the fact that he thirsts tenderness and deep feelings, he has major
difficulties with the fact, in order to allow them to love him – it burdens
him. He tends toward no-emotional equality in the relationships, because he is
afraid that his heart will be injured.
He has a fear living within him to loose the
control of the situation. He has many feelings present in him, associated with disorder
of plans and wreck of hopes, that is why he difficultly
releases the situation and moves away. Since he has much tension, he constantly
senses that he is in need of relaxation, which he does by every accessible
mean.
Now, I hope, you will understand where shocking
vast public details from the celebrities and men-in-authority life come from,
and will stop to censure them. They relax themselves as they are able to. If
you want to achieve success in life, try to concentrate your attention not on
what men having authority and money do, but on the actions they undertake climbing
above the social ladder, and on the understanding of their inner energetics.
To soften their feelings, to relax themselves,
people with phallical structure of character should learn to yield, to
capitulate.
These people are able to gain theirs quite
well. There are no problems for them to lead the started work to the finish,
and they reach the goal easy. The make out with task well, work fast and their
actions are always successful. The responsibility is strongly developed in
them, and they are confident in themselves.